Routines

Finally sleeping properly — what actually worked after years of trying

Posted by jamie_adhd · 2 weeks ago · 29 replies · 537 views
Quick version: I have ADHD, delayed sleep phase, and a brain that decides 11pm is when it wants to be most interesting to itself.

I've tried melatonin, no screens after 9, sleep meditations, sleep podcasts, sleep apps. Some worked for a while and then stopped. Most didn't work at all.

Three weeks ago I found Focus Frequency Lab's Insomnia Relief album and I've slept before midnight every night since:
https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_n2eI_sEf8oS1PqA9hAZzfJOV8xGTkg0EM

I don't know the science of why this works better than other sleep music. I have a theory that most sleep music is too predictable and my brain clocks the pattern and goes 'okay but also here's every thought you've been avoiding.' This album has enough movement to keep the brain from going fully rogue, but not so much that it stays alert.

I put it on at volume where I can hear it but not follow it, and I'm usually gone before the album ends.

Telling everyone I know with ADHD because three weeks of decent sleep has genuinely changed my functioning.

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zoewired 2 weeks ago
Three weeks is significant. A lot of things work for one or two nights on novelty effect and then stop. The fact that it's still working suggests it's not just novelty.
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elias_m 2 weeks ago
Sent this to my partner who also has ADHD and has the same night brain problem. She's been using it for a week and reports the same thing. Something is working here.
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tomas_t 2 weeks ago
I use this during the wind-down phase, not just when I'm trying to fall asleep. Start playing it around 9:30, keep it on while I do the lower-stimulation evening activities. By the time I'm in bed I'm already partway there.
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sasha_late_dx 2 weeks ago
Your theory about predictability is interesting. I think that's right. Sleep sounds that are too looping give the ADHD brain nothing to hold and it just starts generating its own content. Something with gentle motion occupies just enough.
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ravi_focus 2 weeks ago
I started using this album two weeks after you posted this and I'm having the same experience. The delayed sleep phase part resonates — my brain is wired to want to stay up and most sleep interventions just create a battle. This one sidesteps the battle somehow.
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priya_noise 2 weeks ago
The volume tip is useful — I've been having it too loud which means I end up following it. Will try at a lower level tonight.

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